Approaching Women

Approaching Women Made Easy!

Posted on: 24-02-2010

Tags: Approaching Women, Seduction, What Women Want

Most guys will agree that approaching women is pretty damn stressful. The main reason for this is they fear rejection, thus why a lot of guys say stupid stuff or struggle to say anything when approaching a pretty girl. Here’s some pointers that can help you get over that fear of rejection and make approaching a girl as easy as shooting fish in a barrel!

Don’t hesitate when approaching women

Instead of standing staring at her make a move. Give yourself 3 seconds then go. The longer you stand staring the longer you have to think about approaching her and the more pressure you will place upon yourself. Also if you stand staring at her for a while I’m pretty sure she will notice you and you will just look like some sad loser to her.

Prepare for any outcome

Let’s be realistic here, you’re going to get rejected at some point, I don’t care how good looking or charming you are you will get turned down at some point. So what you need to understand it’s normal to get rejected so don’t worry about it too much. No one guy can please every woman. Some women like blonde guys, some like tall guys, some like chubby guys and you can’t be all of these so sometimes it just won’t happen. The secret is to not take it personally. You can’t let your fear of rejectiion stop you from approaching women.

Gauge her body language

This is something you should do before you even bother making a move, observe her body language for a little to see if she is interested in you. If she makes regular eye contact with you, smiles a lot, plays with her hair or fidgets with her jewelry or clothes then you can be pretty sure she won’t reject you outright.

Flirty Body Language

Posted on: 20-02-2010

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Category : Flirting

Tags: Body Language, Flirting

Having the proper body language when flirting women is a must. Before a woman will give you her phone number or even think about going home with her, you need to have built attraction and rapport with her. By having the right kind of body language you’ll be able to increase your success with her.

So how do you develop the right kind of body language that will draw in women?

I’ve broken i down in to a few easy steps:

Develop a positive attitude and ambiance

Your overall demeanor is the most important step to developing the proper body language in flirting. This means having fun in your conversation and genuinely enjoying her company. If you take the time to make sure you’re having fun, this attitude will be obvious in any interaction with a woman.

Carry yourself in a confident manner

A strong a confident personality will always attract women, so when you approach a woman and engage her in a conversation, take the time to ensure you come across confident. Even if you don’t feel confident, keep practicing till you can at the very least fake it.

Lightly touch her during your interactions

A simple way to quickly build attraction is to lightly touch women during your conversations. By breaking the “touching barrier”, you’re basically subconsciously showing her that you have some attraction to her. But if she pulls away or looks upset, don’t touch her again. This pretty much means she doesn’t want you to touch her. (This can change so don’t worry too much if she pulls away at first)

Keep your concentration on what she is saying

You might be surprised but so many guys make the huge mistake that is letting their mind wander or thinking about how to “get into a woman’s pants”. When you’re talking to a woman, make sure you’re listening to what she is saying. If you let your mind drift, she’ll probably pick up on the fact you’re not listening and will get annoyed with you. Concentrate on what she is saying and let her know that you’re listening.

A Good Way To Open

Posted on: 17-02-2010

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Category : Openers

Tags: Openers, What Attracts Women

So if you want to get a woman attracted then you need to know how to open a conversation with her right? Well here’s a few pointers and examples that you can use next time you start a conversation with a woman. Something that will make her laugh or something that makes her think are the best way to start a conversation from my experience.

Here’s an example of some fun openers:

Hey, I’m thinking of getting my hair cut, because I’m sick of this old boring one. If you could pick any guys haircut around here, which one would you give me? And it can’t be that guy over there with the bowl cut! Be nice.

Who do you think wears more makeup? Gene Simmonds, or that old waitress over there?

As you can see they’re both light hearted and slightly cheeky.

An example of of some openers to get her thinking:

Excuse me, I need a female opinion…who do you think lies more, men or women? My friend says men but I think it’s women hands down.”

I was talking to my friend the other day about astrology, and I want to get a woman’s opinion…do you think a persons star sign effects their personality, or do you think that just a load of crap?

The key thing to remember when approaching a women is not to look like you’re desperate or wanting something from her. Of Course all women know in the back of their mind that the reason you’re coming over to speak to them is because you’re interested in them.

Approaching women from the side casually, with confidence (not head on), and treating her like she’s someone to share a joke or a conversation with. You’ll be surprised at how receptive most women are when you casually approach them like this.

Just remember, the idea is to start a conversation, not to crack off a one liner and expect her to be all over you. The follow up is just as important, if you use something interesting as an opener, the follow up shouldn’t be hard at all and you’re off into the next step of building attraction with her.

How To Approach Women Without Fear In Public Places

Posted on: 14-02-2010

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Category : Approaching Women

Tags: Approaching Women, Attraction, Pick Up Advice

I found a great video while doing my daily youtube browsing that I feel needs to be shared. It’s got some great advice so check it out.

Attraction Techniques

Posted on: 13-02-2010

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Category : Attracting Women

Tags: Pick Up Advice, What Attracts Women

One problem I see with a lot of guys is that they seem to have low self-esteem. A lot of guys think that some women are out of their league. We all know that gorgeous girls know they’re gorgeous and will flaunt their looks openly. These girls tend to dominate in a relationship and in the majority of cases, if you use regular seduction methods, they may not work and will not take a second look at you.

In reality though no girl is out of any guy’s league, as long as the right attraction methods are put to use. These tips will help when it comes to getting a higher standard of girl and consistently succeed at the same time.

Here’s my top tips:

You have to turn things around and make girls run after you instead. You have to take them down from their pedestal by not showering them with attention for a change, since this is something that girls have started to crave and expect.

Never look at girls the way other guys do and simply act totally indifferent when you flirt with them. Also, make sure that the flirting is done subtly and with the utmost care.

It would also be highly essential to ensure that you don’t make girls feel special in any way. As a matter of fact, you need to make girls think that there is something special about you instead and that you are the prize that needs to be won.

You can even take a bold step and show her that she is boring you while showing very little interest in anything she has to offer; however, ensure that you do not offend her too much by doing so. You may think this is crazy, but as time goes by, rapport will build up and girls will start getting curious because you are so different from all the other guys out there.

Flirting With Women

Posted on: 12-02-2010

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Category : Flirting

Tags: Attraction, Flirting

It’s pretty simple. Guys that know how to flirt with a woman effectively are much more likely to have a fulfilling and enjoyable time with their personal lives. If you don’t know how to flirt with women, then the opposite will also be true. You will end up disappointed and frustrated when you don’t end up getting the female attention that you crave and desire for. You might find yourself searching for magic flirting techniques, hoping that they will be the answer to all of your problems with women.

Unfortunately, they rarely exist. On the flip side, though, flirting with a woman is really not that hard at all. Knowing a few simple concepts, you can choose any women that you want, flirt with her, and end up with her hanging by your side. Not a bad spot to be in, wouldn’t you say?

So, how can you learn how to flirt with a woman the right way and leave her feeling hot for you?

Cause controversy with her.

Most guys end up being all too agreeable when they are with a women. Don’t budge if she says something and you think the opposite. One of the worst things that you can do is try to be a man that just nods his head at whatever she says. Show her that you have your own opinion and ideas. More often than not, this will get her attention, as she is not used to this, but also she is being challenged. Women love to be challenged by a man.

Notice the world around you.

Point out what’s going on around you and her. You can easily find things to joke about and share a luagh with a woman, which is ALWAYS a good thing. Also, you get to start to get a good idea on how she thinks about things. Just because she is attractive, does not mean you should not also get to know her as well.

Surprise her by causing sexual tension with a woman.

Of course, this will be a pleasant surprise for her. If you cause sexual tension with a women and make sure that you do it the right way, you can easily get her attention. The fact is, if you want to be more to her than just a friend, you have to cross the line at some point and cause sexual tension with a girl.

Leaving A Woman Breathless

Posted on: 08-02-2010

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Category : Attracting Women

Tags: Attraction, Flirting, Seduction

Being the type of guy that can leave women breathless seems almost untrue and only a few guys have the ability to do it. This isn’t necessarily true, though it can seem this way at times. One thing that I notice regular when I have a conversation or a discussion with a guy that just doesn’t seem to be having an easy time attracting women is that kind of live in a box of sorts.

What do I mean by this?

Many guys kind of have a standard view on what it is that attracts a woman and if they don’t have those qualities or they don’t fit that image, they assume that they cannot attract a woman or that certain kinds of women are off limits to them.

If you want to be the kind of guy that leaves a woman breathless, then you have to snap out of that kind of thinking immediately! It’s not going to do you any good to think that you are not good enough or you don’t have the ability to attract women and that somehow other guys do.

Here are a few tips that should show you how to leave a woman breathless:

1. Women are attracted to men that have a healthy amount of self esteem.

If you do trap yourself into the box, thinking that you don’t have the money or the looks or the body type to attract women, then you definitely need a quick boost to your self esteem. Most men don’t want to admit that they could use a boos to their self esteem, but if you want things to improve, then you have to get past this.

2. You have to be able to take a woman by SURPRISE.

This is where the average kind of guy actually does have the upper hand. It’s much easier for you to take a woman by surprise if you are not the best looking or the richest guy she meets. How do you take a woman by surprise? It’s easy. Just do the opposite of what the other guys do. If she’s really good looking, then she is probably used to men that kind of dote on her for no reason. Just being the kind of man that actually makes her “earn” your attention will take her by surprise.

3. You have to learn how to “sell” yourself.

Most guys don’t think of it this way, but when you first meet a woman, you have to sell yourself. Of course, this is not for money, but this is to show her who you are. See, when you are able to confidently approach a woman and immediately get her talking, and get her flirting, you are in a sense selling yourself. She’s going to see you in a much better light and you will immediately raise your odds at getting her. And the better job you do, the more likely it is that she will be left feeling breathless.

Easy Seduction Steps

Posted on: 07-02-2010

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Category : Seduction

Tags: Dating Advice, Seduction

Do you want to become really good with with seducing women? Most men nowadays do, but they never seem to have enough confidence to even approach women to begin with. Unfortunately, women can tell if men have confidence problems and end up avoiding such men like the plague.

However, there are methods that could help you get over your self-confidence problems if that is truly what you want to do and they can even help you out right away, as well. Keep in mind, though, that if it is women you fear, you might still have problems in this particular department.

You can still eliminate most of your problems if you dedicate some time to learn about flirting well, dressing up well and staying presentable and confident at all times, though.

2 easy steps to attract any woman effortlessly

1. Connect with women

If you truly wish to succeed with women, you need to make them feel ultra special. Do so by being interested in everything they say, no matter how pointless their words may seem sometimes.

If you do this, you can connect with women better and succeed at dating much more, as well. It doesn’t matter what women say, really, the key is to listen very intently to what they say. This may seem a bit lame, but it can actually make women drop their emotional inhibitions, giving you total control of every situation you find yourself in with them afterwards.

2. Stand out from other men

You can show how different you are compared to other men in today’s day and age by having a different approach and showing women how unique you are. You might get tempted to do as other men do if you see their approaches with women working out. However, you should be smart enough not to say what other men say, regardless of how great things may go for them.

In order to get a woman’s interest, relax, concentrate and try to appear nothing but unique and like fresh meat, so they have something to look forward to. Attraction and uniqueness happen to be correlated in the female world.